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** How Do I know if He’s the One? **

Posted by Ruthie Dean on Wednesday, May 8, 2013 · 20 Comments 


How do you know if the guy you’re dating is ‘the One’? Will you
“just know”?

The scary part about marriage is most people make this decision of
gargantuan proportion /in love/, which by definition means your mind is
hazy from all the 3am make-outs and sheer thrill thinking no one has ever
loved like /this/ before. Dating Michael for me meant my journal entries
were frequent and swirly with emotional statements in all caps like
that I knew he was ‘the One’ the first month we started talking; he
knew I was ‘the One’ after he saw he perform a Taylor Swift song with
some kids I was babysitting. /Long story. /

But how do you know? How do you know if the man you are dating is the
person you should spend the rest of your life waking up next to?

We’ll talk more about this in /Real Men Don’t Text /(which is now
just $7 at Amazon
& Barnes and Noble), but it isn’t necessarily true that you’ll just
know when you meet him. The ability to discern if your guy is right for
you depends on who you’ve dated in the past and whether or not you know
what a good relationship looks like. For example, if you’ve only dated
players or even mediocre guys in the past and suddenly you decide your


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Though it’s easy to think your guy is the one, it’s hard to know for
sure. To see if you’re serious about him – and if he’s worth it –
read these tips and strategies.

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*See if you naturally remember his birthday, your anniversary, and days
that are important to him*. This is one way of determining whether or not
he weighs on your thoughts when he’s not around; it’s one thing to make
room for someone in your life, but it’s another thing to entirely make
room for him in your mind.

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*Make sure he doesn't pressure you to become intimate before you are
ready*. Someone who wants to enjoy your body before your heart is willing
clearly doesn’t have your needs in mind. (And if he can’t see past his
own desires when it comes to sex, he certainly won’t be able to when it
comes to committing or starting a family.)
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*Notice if you compliment him when he's not looking his best*. Do you find
yourself attracted to him even if he has food in his teeth or helmet hair?
Or does your attraction wax and wane depending on how well he grooms


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